People usually are quite reticent where good advice is concerned. There’s a psychological limitation created due to various social philosophies that have been erroneously considered to be the truth.
There seems to be a mental inertia when positive philosophies are discussed. A pattern of clichés form answers to such advice; usually, a lack of real intention to think about life after relinquishing the traditional views.
Life becomes embroiled with some distorted philosophy as well as eschewed psychology, as they become a part of thought process devoid of critical thinking.